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And she's finally here!

  • May. 18th, 2009 at 9:02 PM
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Here's 明莉 (Akari) at long last! She was 2672 gm and 47.5 cm long at birth. She was born at 3:18AM on May 17th via emergency C-section, but she is healthy and alert (and still loves to suck her thumb!) and I am recovering just fine.

EDIT: sorry about your f-lists guys! The LJ app for iPhone screws up when it "restores previous draft" and no longer gives pic and cut options. Some of the following may be TMI, so I feel I should warn you to scroll by without reading if talk of nursing and/or surgery squicks you out. Sorry again- I'll see if I can fix the post and add photos via Safari, but I have no Internet access besides this thing, and I'm in pain, tired, and I have to feed a newborn in 3 hours or so, so forgive me if I can't, ok?

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It looked like a normal delivery right up to the end. I was finally dilated to 9cm, having toughed it out without the epidural because I'd eaten dinner just before, figuring my contractions still weren't strong enough to warrant another hospital visit. But when I stood up to put my dishes in the sink, I discovered my pants were wet, so off we went again. Turns out it wasn't my water breaking, just incontinence courtesy of the descending baby head, but since I was dilated to 5cm, we were admitted.
Getting to 9cm was such hard work (and took much less time)! I can't imagine how hard it would have been without my husband there rubbing my back during each contraction and encouraging me. The midwives and nurses here are so supportive and encouraging as well. (No doctor til the end, because it was nighttime.)
We had just moved to the birthing room when the fetal monitor showed that her pulse had dropped dangerously, probably because the umbilical cord was being compressed. (No more amniotic fluid to cushion the cord because my water had broken earlier.) So I was taken (on my hands and knees) to the OR on a stretcher as fast as they could, leaving my terrified husband behind.
The surgery was not fun. :( My husband asked me after which part was worse, the labour or the surgery, and I said the surgery. Despite the spinal anaesthesia, I could still feel a lot of pain and discomfort, and I was naked and strapped onto a table and scared. I was soo glad I'd chosen a doctor who could speak English because he could talk me through what they were doing, even if I couldn't see it. At one point, I felt this massive weight leave my body, and seconds later, I heard her cry! They let me see and touch her for a minute before they whisked her off to my husband and to do tests. But I was stuck in the OR until they removed the afterbirth and sewed me up again. :S
Now we aren't the religious sort, but my husband was praying to our ancestors the whole time. He says he got all teary-eyed when they brought her out. We both still get choked up thinking about what could have happened. I was also in pretty rough shape after they brought me out of surgery, shaky and shivery. So it was a few hours before I felt able to hold her and give her her first feeding, but it was pretty incredible. It felt so good to calm her and feel her nursing happily- she didn't want to let go of the first breast, and fell asleep while suckling the other.
Anyway, I should post this and get some sleep. Just wanted to let you all know the happy news. :)

 

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[info]kimouski wrote:
May. 18th, 2009 12:20 pm (UTC)
Awww. A baby! What a happy, warm feeling. Congratulations!

I never had a cesarean, but almost everything else was similar—including no epidural and the undignified all-fours position! Welcome to the new mothers' club, get some rest (you'll need it), and have a fabulous time marveling over your new daughter.

P.S. Can I say I'm tickled you opted to nurse?
[info]nrgburst wrote:
May. 26th, 2009 11:03 am (UTC)
You know you're the second person who's told me that? Is formula that common in the States? Breastfeeding is pretty much the norm here- formula is used mostly for people who supplement, I think. Pumping milk as a working mother is also pretty much unheard of- new moms usually just quit working so they can stay home and take care of the new baby.
[info]kimouski wrote:
May. 26th, 2009 11:59 am (UTC)
Formula is the norm in the States. I think breastfeeding's becoming fashionable again, but I remember getting weird looks from most of our friends and family when I announced I was going to for our first baby (I did both of our boys).

And women here only wish they could quit working (probably why nursing isn't the norm). I was lucky enough with our first, but I had to pump with our second.
[info]woodster_uk wrote:
May. 18th, 2009 12:35 pm (UTC)
Woo! Welcome to the big wide world, Akari!

Congratulations, NRG... Now go get some rest, you warrior, you. ;)

Also, will baby!NRG be having a GA pen name? So I can stop calling her baby!NRG? XD
[info]nrgburst wrote:
May. 26th, 2009 11:05 am (UTC)
XD
baby!NRG doesn't even know what her nose is yet, so maybe a pen name is slightly premature... :P Why don't you guys just call her Akari-chan like we do?
[info]woodster_uk wrote:
May. 26th, 2009 12:51 pm (UTC)
Fine... Akari-chan it is...

But I want to know as soon as she picks one! =P
[info]rsasai wrote:
May. 18th, 2009 12:42 pm (UTC)
Oh, god, NRG. That sounds... not fun. However, your beautiful baby girl is all worth it, and I am so happy that you've told us that you and your baby are doing well. I got really nervous while reading your post and started crying a little, but it's so nice to hear that even though you were in a lot of pain and had to do the C-Section, that you are both all right.

Goodness, I'm getting all teary-eyed again.

And I owe you a baby blanket.

:3
Sai
[info]nrgburst wrote:
May. 26th, 2009 11:11 am (UTC)
Awww! Sorry to upset you! But to be honest I'd go through it all again if given the choice. She really was worth it. :)

Hurrah for baby swag! :D heehee

How goes life after HS, BTW?
[info]wheatear wrote:
May. 18th, 2009 01:05 pm (UTC)
Woo hoo! Congratulations! It sounds like a horrible experience, but you got a lovely baby girl at the end of it, so yay!
[info]yesterdaylaughs wrote:
May. 18th, 2009 02:43 pm (UTC)
WHOOOO NRG JR HAS ENTERED THE WORLD!
[info]nrgburst wrote:
May. 26th, 2009 11:11 am (UTC)
LOL Thanks!
[info]qwi_xux wrote:
May. 18th, 2009 03:10 pm (UTC)
Awwwww! Congratulations! I'm so sorry that you had to go through the scariness of an emergency C-section, but I'm so very glad that you and Akari are safe and healthy. Pretty soon the pain will be a distant memory. ^_^ I wish you lots and lots of rest and that your darling daughter will be the sort of baby who likes lots of nighttime sleep. :D
[info]alliterationluv wrote:
May. 18th, 2009 04:39 pm (UTC)
Haha, I'm all teary and grinning like a fool. Huge congratulations, NRG, it's great to hear it turned out well in the end, even if it got a crazy at times. Both you and your hubby get lots of rest - or at least as much as you can manage with a new baby girl in the house. xD
[info]nrgburst wrote:
May. 26th, 2009 11:17 am (UTC)
Thanks! Yeah, all well that ends well, right? The doctor also says there's no chance of brain damage despite the fetal distress. When he told us that I started bawling right there in his office. I blame the hormones!

Don't worry about my husband; he sleeps just fine because he's at our house, and baby and I are at his parents'. Next time we'll see him is Sunday, but he gets lots of camera phone pictures of his little girl. :)
[info]renjiluvah wrote:
May. 18th, 2009 07:28 pm (UTC)

CONGRATULATIONS!



*throws confetti* I'm so happy for you. It must have been scary and very painful, especially when they had to do the c-sec but I'm glad it all worked out and you had a group of doctors and family that were encouraging/comforting you the whole time. Congrats for both you and your hubby and lots of blessings to your new baby girl! :D
[info]nrgburst wrote:
May. 26th, 2009 11:19 am (UTC)
Thank you! :D We feel truly blessed. (Except maybe when she refuses to go to sleep! XD)
[info]oceanee wrote:
May. 18th, 2009 08:02 pm (UTC)
Congratulations!! I'm so happy for you! I'm sorry you had to go through surgery, that must have been really painful, and scary. I wish you the best for your recovery.

You must be so happy to finally be able to hold her... Congrats again to you (and also your husband), and my best wishes go to your little bundle of love for her future!^^
[info]sekiharatae wrote:
May. 18th, 2009 08:25 pm (UTC)
Congratulations!! I'm sorry it was so scary (understatement) but so very very glad at the happy outcome! *careful hugs*
[info]nrgburst wrote:
May. 26th, 2009 11:20 am (UTC)
Thanks! We're both doing good- I'm almost pain free and she's gaining weight like a champ. She's already got jowls, swear to god. XD
[info]readingchick wrote:
May. 18th, 2009 10:32 pm (UTC)
Awww, congratulations! It's so good to hear that you and your daughter are both OK!

God, you scared me with the 'emergency C-section' bit, though. I hope you recovery from the surgery speedily and well. :D
[info]loralienasa wrote:
May. 18th, 2009 11:09 pm (UTC)
Congratulations, NRG! Being NOT pregnant anymore is going to be so awesome, wait and see. ;)

--VulcanElf
[info]nrgburst wrote:
May. 26th, 2009 11:25 am (UTC)
Thanks! Yeah, this whole mothering thing has been pretty good so far, although I'm constantly being surprised by stuff like the sheer amount of poop that she produces. XD
[info]kisarastrife wrote:
May. 19th, 2009 04:05 pm (UTC)
Oh, congratulations Nrg!!! Don't think about what could have happened huni; you have your beautiful daughter now!! I'm so happy for you!
[info]bianka_chan wrote:
May. 21st, 2009 12:25 am (UTC)
Congratulations! Hooray! I got so happy reading the title of this post. =D

I'm sorry to hear that it was a scary experience, but I'm sure you'll find that it was worth it. =)

I can't wait to see pictures, hee. I'm sure she's beautiful.
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